Sunday, 15 December 2013

Reality is chasing. How far can you run away?


When was the last time you felt an absolute need of an escape, a run-away from everything that is troubling you, everything that is pulling you out of your comfort zone and dragging you onto the path of inconvenience. We all have our own way of escapism because very often we find out that the reality is harsh and we are not in a mood to fight. As humans, we are supposed to be strong and believe in ourselves, to take the leap of faith every now and then but sometimes turning our backs to the problems and running away seems a better option. To accept the situations is hard and to sneak away seems soothing.
Deep down we are all afraid and we all have fears, fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of losing ,fear of getting lost and above all fear of a change and we try hard to avoid confronting our fears, so we hide behind our fantasies and pretend that the state we are in is the state we want to be in.
The world believes in the Newton's law of inertia that a body in rest continues to be in rest till some external force forces it to run away from that force. We all do it. Every day. Its science and we cannot deny it. So we try to keep ourselves in that state of rest and we develop methods to do that. Our own escapes.

But life is not just science it also is history and geography. It knows the secret pathways of our bitter histories and it has the power of changing everything around us in a moment. Just when we've started feeling sure of our self and the defenses we've chosen, the weather outside changes. So when it is too cold outside, the best we can do sometimes is to just wrap up ourself in a blanket and wait for the springs to find its way.

Thursday, 14 November 2013

Lets refuse to grow up !





Growing old is mandatory but growing up is optional. We become adults because we have no other option. Things change and they change us as well. Childhood is a wonderful phase but by the time we realize this, it becomes a memory.
 We the kids of 90s have enjoyed some childhood pleasures that have become history now. My most treasured memory is of the summer vacations at my grandparent’s place! Unlike today the “garmi ki chutti” was not meant for hobby classes and summer workshops but cycle ride through the town, hand full of mangoes, hide and seek, moholla cricket, roohafsa evenings and watching cartoons. Those were the days of Disney, The Arabian night, Ariel the mermaid. 
But whatever maybe the era, “childhood days” is something that everyone cherishes. I give you a chance to relive some of those memories with me. Hope you enjoy it.



आओ फिर गुड़ियों के घर बनाएं
फिर से नन्ही नाव बना कर पानी में तैरायें
फिर से गमलों में टॉफ़ी छुपाएं
पड़ोस वाली आंटी के पेड़ से अमरुद चुराएं

आओ फिर चाँद को मामू बुलाएं
फिर से गर्मी की छुट्टी में नानी के घर जाएं
फिर से सुबह उठते ही खेलने भाग जाएं
सपोर्टर लगा के मोहोल्ले भर में साइकिल दौड़ाएं

पिंकी से ज्यादा लम्बी पेंसिल होने पे इतरायें
फिर सुबह झगड़ कर शाम तक भूल जाएं
फिर से दो रुपये के बुड्ढी के बाल खाएं
छुपन छुपाई खेलने के लिए दोस्तों को बुलाएं

आओ फिर झूले से गिर के भी मुस्कुराएं
फिर घर जाकर सोनू की शिकायत लगाएं
फिर से पापा के स्कूटर  पे बाज़ार जाएं
और थक कर रात में माँ की गोद में सो जाएं


Picture credits : Two of the most awesome photographers of my college.
Puneet Batra sir and Varun Srivastava :)

Visit them here :
https://www.facebook.com/puneet.vivid
 https://www.facebook.com/varun.photoholic